What Is Your Why?
Today I received delivery of a new guidebook for the manifestation process based on an audio series called Your Wish Is Your Command...
I had expected a thin booklet of key points but this is a comprehensive fill-in-the-blank workshop program. For $10! Check it out here:
Just flicking through it and having been listening to the audio series Your Wish Is Your Command recently (yet again), I made a new epiphany about the "Training Balance Scale"...
- 99% of success comes because of the thought side also called the 'why' side.
- Only 1% of success comes because of the action side also called the 'how' side.
Well, I have to confess that until recently I thought it was the other way around...
I believed that the 'why stuff' is pretty obvious and straight forward. I thought that what I needed to spend time on was the 'how' stuff. How will I achieve it? How can it be done? How will I succeed with this that and the other...
Well, turns out I had things back to front.
It wouldn't be the first time.
And although I'm not completely comfortable with the idea, I do definitely now see much more clearly how the 'why' side is so incredibly crucial... and yes, definitely something that should be focused on MORE than the 'how' side.
Sure, we most certainly need to plan, learn, act, create and review.
But those factors of 'how' we do something no longer to me seem like the main things to focus on.
The reason is simple:
Because it's actually the 'how' side that is simple. It's just about process. And most projects can be broken down into the steps of success in just a matter of hours of research.
In Viktor Frankl's book Man's Search For Meaning, he describes that patients who lost hope soon succumbed to illness and death. Yet as long as people believed in the meaning and signifiancce of their hardships, they could endure and live on.
That to me speaks directly to the Training Balance Scale.
If your 'why' is big enough, the how doesn't matter.
If the dream is big enough, the facts don't count.
Why you do something is more important than how.
How To Create Burning Desire
I also realised today that the 'reason why 'relates to 'getting a burning desire'...
Those of you in the know, understand Napoleon Hill's advice to 'define your dream and get a burning desire for its achievement'.
We now understand why Kevin Trudeau emphasises the duration of setting emotional intensity on the object of your desire.
He also explains (in Your Wish Is Your Command) why having specific objects of desire is not the 'best' way to set goals, contrary to most other 'gurus'. And now I understand more fully the reason why.
Because by looking at the desires beneath the surface of the actual objects, we enter more into the spirit of meaning and significance for those things.
I.e. We more fully embody and resonant with the 'reason why' we want those things which builds up the emotional intensity.
Rather than simply wanting the Aston Martin DBS (as I so very much do) what I need to focus on more is the meaning and significance of that object of desire.
The status. The comfort. The symbol of personal success. The feeling of security and abudnance. It's not about the car. It's what the car means to me... the reason why the car is significant to me.
And that's the right vibrational intensity of desire that, according to Kevin and according to the Law of Attraction, will help bring that experience into my life, whether it be specifically from owning an Aston Martin DBS, or some other car.
Emotional intensity represents the frequency of vibration that will attract the objects of desire into experience.
It's the feeling I want. And feelings relate to reasons why. Not to 'how' or even exactly to 'what'.
And when I emotionally feel a strong intensity of why I want something... then as per the Law of Attraction...
"when you really want something to happen, the whole universe conspires so that your wish comes true". - The Alchemist
The point of the Training Balance Scale is that when the why is great enough, you will magically or relatively painlessly find, discover or 'attract' the 'how'.
So...
Take your list of things you want to do, have and become... and consider why you want them.
What will they give you or facilitate for you that you don't already have?
What is YOUR why?
And...
Is your why BIG enough?
Meaning, is it clear enough, it is intense enough, is it exciting enough, is it inspiring enough?
I'm going to be focusing on the intensity of my reasons WHY I want things and the meaning and significance of WHY I want them.
If you haven't already picked up a box-set of the Your Wish Is Your Command CDs, contact me for priviliged arrangements.
And I do also very much recommend the new guidebook too.
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